12 April 2024
In a world where juggling multiple obligations can be a daunting task, there are individuals like Major Paul Stone who have mastered the art of balancing their civilian and military duties.
With 17 years of service in the Army Reserves and a full-time role as a compliance manager for Defence Service Homes Insurance (DSHI), Major Stone has shown dedication in both.
For Major Stone, serving in Army was a lifelong dream, inspired by his father and brother, who had also dedicated themselves to the military.
Joining the Army Reserves 17 years ago, Major Stone’s journey includes overseas training, full-time service in Timor Leste and countless memories that he cherishes.
However, the path of a reservist is not without its challenges. Balancing overlapping responsibilities can often lead to friction.
Major Stone acknowledges the commitment required, as he constantly adapts and pivots between his civilian and military lifestyles.
One of the requirements for many reservists is regular weekend training exercises.
While it may seem inconsequential to the civilian employer, for the employee, it means 12 days of continuous work without time off.
'My balancing act has less to do with me and more to do with the support of my wife and family'
This can take a toll on the individual, especially when coupled with additional family responsibilities and other tasks.
"As a company commander, I have served over 100 Army Reserve training days in the past 12 months," Major Stone said.
“These training days encompass a wide range of activities, including warfighting exercises, first aid and combat courses, and general barracks duties.”
The routine of peeling away from the desk on a Friday, packing bags and hitting the road for military duty has become second nature to him.
Returning home on a Sunday evening, unpacking and then mentally preparing for the full-time job on Monday morning can be an exhausting cycle.
Major Stone found unwavering support from his civilian employer.
"I was honest with DSHI, who understood my requirements and immediately assisted with a flexible workplace arrangement," he said.
The arrangement included accommodating rostered hours and work-from-home allowances, enabling him to fulfil his Defence duties.
Major Stone thanks his family for his ability to achieve a delicate equilibrium.
“My balancing act has less to do with me and more to do with the support of my wife and family,” he said.
Major Stone said his wife, Lisa, had been an extraordinary mother to their daughters Ruby and Lola.
“As with all service personnel, it is the care and sacrifice of our partners and families that enables our ability to serve in any capacity,” he said.
