Sticking
to the resolution
So
it's only February and your New Year's resolve is already wavering?
Sgt Rob Orr has the keys to staying focused and determined this
year.
For
many, New Year's Day is the day for a new start and the all-too-familiar
New Year's resolution. Unfortunately, although intentions and resolve
may be firm, many fail to survive more than a few weeks or at best
a few months. This edition we'll look at how to increase your chances
of following through with your resolutions.
Why?
The
first thing to consider is the why? Why are you making a resolution?
What is your goal? For any chance of success, you must understand
why you are doing what you are doing and most importantly it must
be something you honestly want to achieve. Giving up smoking because
everyone tells you it is bad for you provides a fairly shallow resolve
which will often end in failure and mean the same resolution next
year. You must want to give up smoking, not because others say it
is bad for you, but because you believe it is bad for you.
Benefits
Once
you've determined why you are going to make the resolution, provide
some reinforcement. If your New Year's resolution is to pass a BFA,
explore other benefits that will be gained from your resolution.
It will improve your cardio-respiratory health, positively influence
your bone density, aid in fat loss and decrease the chance of obesity-related
illnesses and diseases. For smokers, quitting could mean cleaner
teeth, saved money, improved cardio-respiratory health for you and
your family and being a non-smoking role model for your children.
Plan
Now
the why and its reinforcers have been established, probably the
most important factor must be addressed - planning. Remember the
adage "failing to plan is planning to fail?" Well, that
applies strongly. You need to plan and strategise how you are going
to achieve this goal.
So
you want to quit smoking? There are numerous planning steps that
should be taken. Just before the resolution, all traces of cigarettes
must be removed from the house. Have all clothes that you wore while
smoking washed and cleaned, use air freshener to remove the smell
from furniture, remove any trigger in your house that may lead you
to desire a cigarette.
Use
the "what if?" planning strategy: What if I get invited
out to a place where there are many smokers or my friends who smoke
will be there? What if I find the cravings too strong to bear -
Will I purchase/carry nicotine patches? - What sort? - Is it safe
for me? You need a plan of attack ready to go when your resolution
starts.
For
fitness, look at where you're going to train, wet weather plans,
most importantly set a definitive time to establish a habit (by
definitive time I mean "At 0600 I will go for a walk",
not "I will walk every morning"). Have you purchased or
do you own the runnings shoes you're going to need? Do you have
a gym towel? Simple things, but things that compound to deflate
your conviction by making the resolution "too much effort".
Realism
Be
realistic. Don't set out a plan that is over ambitious and will
be difficult to achieve - think long term. A resolution that begins
with "I will go for a walk at 0530 every morning" may
be difficult to achieve. You may initially suffer from a loss of
sleep, thus decreasing your motivation every morning to the point
where you are so tired one morning, you to decide to sleep in.
This
leads to more and more sleeping in and your resolution is discarded.
Going for that walk every second day will provide a sleep catch-up
day while your body adjusts. The following month may change to four
or five times a week or an increase in walk distance.
This
method will also allow for more flexibility in your program. For
example, if you're on duty or it's raining that morning you would
have an option to catch up the missed session.
Monitor
Determine
how you'll monitor your success. For some resolutions this will
be easier. If you quit smoking you could celebrate your first week,
month, six months and year without smoking and you will be able
to tell when you have reached these milestones easily.
Fitness
may be more difficult to monitor and is dependent on your resolution.
Improving cardio-respiratory health, for example, would be difficult
to monitor as the improvements are mostly internal and gradual.
With this in mind, more superficial methods can be used.
The
first requires occasional re-testing (specifically set periods)
of your cardio-respiratory ability (eg 2.4km run time).
Another
method is to have anthropometric measurements (like flexibility,
skin fold, girths, etc) taken and compared at a later date.
Probably
the least demanding means of monitoring your resolution is to simply
monitor your program and your compliance to it over a set period
of time.
Conclusion
So,
this year when you set your resolution, consider: Why this is your
resolution; what benefits and secondary (reinforcer) benefits you
will gain; what planning, preparation and research needs to be conducted
before the big day; is the resolution practical and realistic and
how will you monitor and validate it?
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