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Work LifeSheer blasphemySide story: Cowardly cussing Your boss just told you your job is being restructured for the third time this week, your computer doesn't work but you can't call the helpdesk because although you moved desks last Tuesday, your phone didn't. Then you spill coffee down the front of your new top. Kathryn Fitch tackles the delicate issue of swearing in the workplace...It's enough to make a saint swear... but if that saint worked in Defence, should they? And let's just say - hypothetically of course - that the saint did swear, what are the repercussions? And when it comes right down to it, what counts as swearing anyway? Admittedly trying to define swearing is difficult because it's a grey area. What is everyday conversation to one person can make another person's eyes water - and then there are some people who seem to use swearing like punctuation. The Macquarie dictionary defines a 'swearword' as an obscene or blasphemous word, and to 'swear at' as to speak to with curses or blasphemies or abuse. Obscene? Blasphemous? Once again, without wanting to get too pedantic, we turn to the Macquarie dictionary - which incidentally is infamous for the inclusion of four letter words. Obscene is defined as "offensive to modesty or decency, indecent, inciting to lust or sexual depravity" and to blaspheme is "to speak impiously or irreverently of god or sacred things". This only raises more questions to an inquiring mind. How do you define indecent or impious? How would you benchmark modesty or decency? Is it still impious or irreverent if you are unaware of the religion? Come to that, which god? The different shades of grey would probably keep a lively discussion going at the pub on a Friday night - but what you are a person who swears, or an annoyed co-worker, or a manager that has to moderate between the two. What are the actual rules? Richard Dittler, who works as a trainer in Defence Policy, says rather than wading into the classification debate Defence views swearing at work from the effect it has on the person hearing it. "Swearing in the workplace is defined by its effect on people. The legal test is what effect the language would have on a reasonable person. What society regards as reasonable is usually defined by the courts - there are specific cases that deal with swearing in the workplace, and these define our view of what is fair and reasonable in a particular set of circumstances. For example, an Army section commander giving fire orders in combat may reasonably use language that is unacceptable in an office environment. Context is important." Mr Dittler says. According to Mr Dittler, people regularly modify their behaviour depending on the situation they're in and that how we speak depends on our audience - the language we use with our mates is often different from that which we use to talk to our grandmother. He says, likewise it is important that we recognise that the workplace has certain rules, and (even though some of our colleagues may also be our mates), our behaviour should consider everyone who may be around and take their possible sensitivities into account. Ok, so the saint swore, and that upset someone... "The most common misconception is that a person has to be warned that their language is upsetting someone before they can be pulled up on it. It doesn't work like that. Like anything that is covered under Unacceptable Behaviour - there is an assumption that people have attended the annual Equity and Diversity training, and that they are aware of their responsibility to treat those around them with respect," he says. "But this does not mean that every time someone swears, they should be punished for unacceptable behaviour. It simply means that the language should fit with the situation and the measure is that a 'reasonable' person would use similar language given the same situation. For example, someone in a workshop who drops a heavy object on their toe would have a reasonable case for swearing. On the other hand, doing so while delivering a presentation to a boardroom is harder to justify." After a vox pop in this office it looks like the saint would be off the hook in that instance - but you can't be sure of the same everywhere. Like everything in the modern workplace, staying on the right side of law and policy means treating your colleagues with respect and courtesy, so unless you work in a soundproofed office alone, it's probably better to leave the locker room language there. [ top of page ] |
Cowardly cussingSwearing is often one of the weapons of choice for that scourge of the office - the bully. Unlike someone who may use a few choice words to vent frustration at a computer - the office bully will direct swearing at a person with the aim of threatening and frightening or humiliating that person. When swearing is used like this it is a form of psychological abuse and research has shown is frequently motivated by feelings of inadequacy and jealousy - which often means an organisation's best and brightest are targeted. Instead of fostering talent the bully will feel threatened by it and according to Tim Field, author of the web site Bully Online the bully will first try to control and subjugate the target, and if that doesn't work, eliminate them. While the bully may want to dismiss it as nothing, when language is used in this way, it is bad for your health. It can cause problems ranging from stress, illness, poor concentration to depression, panic attacks and lowering of self-esteem. It will also disturb the workplace, and according to Mr Field because of the bully's covert nature often the first sign that a bully is operating in an area are things such as staff turnover, absenteeism, use of disciplinary and grievance procedures. Not surprisingly, this behaviour is considered unacceptable in Defence and is officially covered in Defence Instructions (General) Pers 35-3, Annex A. In Defence bullying is defined as: the persistent pattern of behaviour by a person in the workplace that is harmful, intimidating, humiliating or embarrassing, and which is aimed at making the complainant feel miserable, demoralised and lacking in self-confidence. It is the deliberate desire to hurt, threaten or frighten someone with words or actions. Recently Defence has made a concerted effort to raise awareness about this issue and the Defence Equity Organisation has developed guidelines for dealing with bullies and how to create a bully-free workplace. People who are being bullied are often afraid, unfortunately with good cause, that confronting the person may lead to further victimisation or ridicule. To protect them from further victimisation they are able to raise a complaint under the unacceptable behaviour complaint process, which is posted on http://defweb2.cbr.defence.gov.au/dpeequity/default.htm. For further information on bullying start with Tim Field's website www.bullyonline.org. It has a huge amount of information including links to Australian anti-bully organisations. [ top of page ] |
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